Beauty · Skincare

How I Started Retinol Without Wrecking My Skin


Janet with healthy, glowy skin
Slow and gentle is the whole secret. I learned that the peel-y way.

The first time I tried retinol I did everything wrong and my skin peeled for a week. So I want to save you from that. Retinol can be amazing for smoothing and evening out skin, but it needs a gentle, slow start, especially if you are new.

Here is exactly how I eased back into it, and the gentle products I leaned on so my skin stayed calm and happy. Please remember I am a mom sharing what worked for me, not a dermatologist, so check with a pro if you have concerns.

The gentle base I built first

La Roche-Posay Toleriane Cleanser

When you introduce retinol, everything else in your routine should be soothing. This gentle, fragrance-conscious cleanser became my nighttime step so I was not adding any extra irritation on top of the actives.

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The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid

Hydration is your best friend on retinol nights. I put a couple drops of this on damp skin first to give my face a cushion of moisture before anything active goes on.

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CeraVe Moisturizing Cream

My buffer and my seal. I use this both under my retinol some nights, which is called buffering, and always after, to lock in moisture and keep flaking away. This step made the biggest difference for me.

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Damage control I keep on hand

Aquaphor Healing Ointment

If a dry patch shows up, a tiny bit of this on the spot overnight helps it recover. I keep a tube nearby for the first few weeks of any retinol routine, just in case.

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The Ordinary Niacinamide

On my off nights, when I am not using retinol, I keep things supportive and calm with niacinamide. It fits nicely into the gentle routine you want around your actives.

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EltaMD UV Clear SPF 46

The non-negotiable. Retinol can make your skin more sensitive to the sun, so daily SPF is a must. This is the one I use every single morning, retinol or not, and it is doubly important once you start.

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My tip: Start with retinol just once or twice a week on dry skin, buffer with moisturizer, and build up slowly over weeks. A little goes a long way, a pea size amount for your whole face. And wear your SPF, every day, no exceptions.

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Frequently asked questions

How often should a beginner use retinol?

Start slow, like once or twice a week, and build up as your skin tolerates it. Rushing is the fastest way to irritation, so patience really pays off here.

What is buffering and does it help?

Buffering means applying moisturizer before or mixed with your retinol to soften its effect. It helped my skin adjust with a lot less dryness when I was starting out.

Do I need sunscreen with retinol?

Yes, daily SPF is really important because retinol can make skin more sun sensitive. I never skip it. If you have any concerns, check with a dermatologist first.

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Janet

Janet

Orlando mom of two and the creator behind Planet Janet TV. I share the real finds, routines, and deals I actually use. Come say hi on Instagram.

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